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Saturday, 22 July 2017

Aidilfitri 2017 and New Baby!

Assalamualaikum,

Hari ni 22 Julai 2017. I am supposed to deliver my baby today. Haha. Yes, my EDD is on this date, same date with my big brother's birthday, Pok Keng. However, Alhamdulillah, at 38 weeks ++, Tuesday, on 11th July 2017, I safely delivered my second baby boy via SVD, 12.41 AM, birth weight at 3.15kg. Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah. This is equal to 17 Syawal 1438H. We named him Muhammad Nadzmin bin Mohd Faizul, which means Cahaya yang Terpuji.

I never write about my first experience delivering my first born son, Zaheen. So today I wanna write one. Who knows one day my kids will find out my blog kan hwahwa.

Zaheen.
I started my contraction on early morning 2 July 2015, just before sahur. I went to toilet and found out there's a blood spot. So now I know I will deliver soon, very soon. I cannot concentrate on sleep anymore. I just waited until sahur time, then headed to my emak's room and tell her that I had a minor contraction and a blood spot. Emak said okay just go sahur first then decide when to go to hospital. I decided to sleep after subuh and waited until morning before we go to hospital. 8.30 AM, I took my packed bags, and headed to hospital with Awa and Emak. Awa drop us to maternity A&E HSNZ, and I checked in there. By that time contraction is still mild. About 20-30 minutes at a time. Checked for opening and its only 2cm, so they sent me to the ward first. Long story short, at 9PM, my contraction become severely hard, and I couldn't bear it anymore. Ask the nurse to check my opening, and that time it's already 5cm. So they pushed me down to the labour room. I asked for epidural, at 11PM, the anaesth team came, checked on me, and started on epidural. 12 AM 3rd July 2015, the nurse called my husband into the labour room. The epidural worked hell really well that I don't even feel a thing. My contraction went away like pffffttt taddaaaaa, and I can sleep really well at that time HAHAHA. 4am, the nurse checked on me, the opening was 8cm still that time, but the head was already there and asked my husband to go sahur and subuh first. Around 6.30AM, my husband came back, and the nurse checked on my opening, it's already 10cm, so they prepared for my delivery. 7.20AM, they looked at my CTG, and asked me to push whenever the CTG showed there's a contraction because I can't feel any contraction. I forgot how many times I pushed, but Alhamdulillah after few times pushing, my baby is finally out at 7. 35 AM. They did episiotomy on me as well, and did the stitches but due to the strong epidural, I didn't feel anything. Everything's settled, and I am back to the ward, and that evening, I checked out the hospital and went back home. :)

Nadzmin.
9 July 2017, before sleep as usual I texted my husband goodnight and everything. That night rasa macam ala-ala nak sakit senggugut, so I texted my husband "Standby la esok pg takut ayg nk beranak⁠⁠⁠⁠" and later I fell asleep. 2.30 AM, I feel like peeing so I went to toilet and found out a blood spot. Only after that I realized I actually had a very minor contraction. I texted again my husband and told him about that, and continued my beauty sleep. Around 4.30 AM, the contraction started to harden. So I texted again my husband, no reply (of course la mamat tu tengah sedap tido haha). And I texted my emak as well. But this time really, I feel more relax, maybe because I know what to expect. I decided to go to hospital in the morning since the contraction at that time was only 10-15 minutes at a time. So that morning, I went to my cafe to sent money, sent Zaheen to school, and went to Giant. The main purpose is to walk and walk and walk to accelerate my opening. However, when I went back home, the contraction became less strength and I decided to wait until my husband arrived from KL. My husband went back to Terengganu around 11AM after he settled passing over his works to his officemate. Around 4.30PM, I picked Zaheen up from school and when I came back home, daddy Zaheen is already there. Since the contraction at that time still 10-15 minutes, I decided to wait still until Zaheen fall asleep that night. Around 9.15PM, the contraction became stronger in strength and became faster in duration, it was about 5 minutes per contraction at that time. So siap-siap Zaheen, salin pampers and put him into sleep. At 10.30PM, my husband sent me to HSNZ. Checked in the maternity A&E, and two HOs came and checked my opening, 5cm already, so they sent me direct to labour room. That was at 11.45PM. Checked in labour room, another HO checked my opening, 6cm. I request for epidural, but at that time, I don't think they would cater me that since the progress for the cervix opening is faster if you are not a primid(first child). And yes, they said it would be complicated if they want to request epidural to anesth team since they need to do the blood investigation first blablabla so the asked me if I wanted to cancel taking epidural, so I said yes. So they broke my water, and guess what. The contraction became harder and stronger. My husband came in, and of course la tangan die jadi tempat genggaman terkuat, sakit siot. HAHAHA. Sempat lagi cakap rasa nak gigit je tangan dia. Hwahwa. After around 3 times of super pain contraction, the fourth one I cannot even stand it anymore. Turned my face to my husband baru teringat, eh lupa minta maaf HAHA. So dengan kesakitan tu rasa macam nak nangis dah, terus cakap "Sorry abang". And at that time contraction tu aku dah start guling-guling and cakap adoi lama lagi ke nak kena rasa sakit ni and suddenly rasa macam nak terberak HAHAHA. Terus cakap rasa macam nak meneran, nurse cepat-cepat suruh pusing duduk in lithotomy position(sebab sebelum tu dok mengiring ke kiri). And suddenly jugak my labour room was flood with nurses + midwives + doctors. So dieorang pun macam tengah bagi sokongan moral kat sukaneka kanak-kanak ha okay teran je kepala baby dah nampak. Of course la aku meneran sebab memang rasa nak terberak pon haha. Few times teran, then tetibe tak rasa sebab xde contraction. So, amek nafas, baiki position jap. Within few seconds, rasa contraction, meneran sekali dan alhamdulillah selamat kuar baby at 12.41 AM 11 July 2017. Haha. Macam best je berak kuar baby. HAHAHA. Then macam biasa la tunggu placenta keluar then jahit pulak. This one takde episiotomy but kena first degree tear + labia tear. Jahit tu masyaALLAH, lagi sakit dari contraction. First anak tak rasa apa sebab on epidural. But whatever it is, ALHAMDULILLAH semua dah selamat. 

So now, I'm a mother of two boys. Hehe. Alhamdulillah. Bermulalah cabaran hidup berkeluarga dua anak. Tabik spring mak aku boleh beranak 8. HAHA. Anyway, just for the record, contraction pain yang aku rasa this time is actually less hurt than masa beranakkan Zaheen. Masa pregnantkan Zaheen, aku minum VCO - virgin coconut oil a.k.a minyak kelapa dara. I was warned by few persons, it will make your contraction stronger, but your cervix opening will be delayed, and guess what, MEMANG BETUL PUN. That's what happen in my case masa beranakkan Zaheen. The contraction I felt masa Zaheen memang sangat-sangat sakit even before epidural. Sakit dia memang menggila macam nak tercabut pinggang. But the opening progress memang very, very slow. So masa second pregnancy ni, I avoid dari minum apa-apa minyak. Just regularly minum AIR KELAPA sebab memang suka and takde masalah pun. And hasilnya Alhamdulillah contraction pain tetap sakit, but bearable unless yang sebelum meneran tu memang sakit gila takleh tahan. HAHA. So lesson learnt, NEVER drink VCO masa pregnant. Iklan-iklan kata baby licin, mudah bersalin tu semua SAMPAH. Zaheen dulu pun takde la licin sangat, Nadzmin pun tak licin. Of course la vernix tu ada bukan disebabkan oleh minum VCO ke tidak. Lagi lama pregnant, lagi kurang vernix kat baby nanti.

Anyway, that is MY story. Saja tulis so that if ever I forgot, boleh tengok balik. Hihi. Thanks to Allah, husband, emak ayah, family and all the superb HSNZ staffs for helping me out during delivery. Untuk sesiapa yang nak beranak, I wish you all the best. And it is still not too late to say Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Maaf Zahir Batin.

Here's one picture of my precious second born son, Muhammad Nadzmin.






-adios-



Tuesday, 13 June 2017

Ramadhan & Syawal

Assalamualaikum,

Hari ni dah hari ke 18 Ramadhan, alhamdulillah masih berkesempatan merasai Ramadhan this year. This week marks my 34 weeks pregnancy as well. So far, alhamdulillah takde apa-apa masalah and tak tinggal puasa lagi. Except for day 1 puasa, masuk Zohor je dah selamat muntah hijau. Haha. Tapi puasa tetap diteruskan.

Anyway, puasa ni jadual rutin dah berubah. I took a month leave. So here I am with my husband, melayani beliau di bulan puasa. Kesian pulak sahur and buka puasa sorang-sorang. Tahun lepas dah la half puasa kat Mongolia. Haha. This year dapat puasa full with my husband, alhamdulillah. So rutin harian adalah masak, masak dan memasak. Masak sahur, masak kat Zaheen untuk lunch, masak berbuka pulak. Kadang-kadang kalau rajin masak moreh. Tapi masak moreh tu jarang sangat, sebab hari-hari Zaheen ajak keluar lepas terawikh. Mostly hari-hari drive through McD and jalan-jalan area tengah KL ni hwahwa.

Zaheen pulak lepas lama duduk dengan daddy ni dia start makan banyak. Bukan banyak je, start makan sayur sekali haha. I never knew dia suka sayur sebab selama ni kalau letak sayur, dia buang. Rupanya itu adalah tindakan meniru mommynya sebab mommynya konfem buang sayur-sayur dalam pinggan. Haha. To my surprise, bukan stakat sawi and carrot je die makan. Dengan kacang panjang pun die ratah macam tu je ikut daddy dia. Haha... Sebelum ni kalau bagi sayur mesti dia puek balik taknak sayur. Now dah terbalik dok asyik mintak sayur. Good for him anyway. Macam-macam.....

So... Disebabkan dah jarang update blog. Di kesempatan ini daku ingin mengucapkan Selamat Berpuasa di bulan Ramadhan dan Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri. Minta maaf kepada yang pernah terluka mahupun terasa dengan aku zahir dan batin. Yang tak reti-reti minta maaf dengan aku sejak buat salah dari dulu, cepat-cepat minta maaf ya. Jangan dok buat senyap macam takde pape pernah berlaku. Dosa woo. Kalau mati tak sempat mintak maaf, sia-sia je. Ooops, sape yang makan cili dia la yang rasa pedasnya. Hahahaha...

Selamat menyambut Ramadhan Kareem
&
Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri
Maaf Zahir dan Batin

Ikhlas dari Anna, Joey, Zaheen & Baby


Okay bai.


Till then, toodles!


-adios-

Wednesday, 5 April 2017

Anniversary The Third

Assalamualaikum,

Late update for our third anniversary. Hwahwa.

Alhamdulillah. 3 years living together with one kid and another one coming soon in July. Alhamdulillah for everything.

So much I've learned from these 3 years. And I hope our love will forever bloom InsyaAllah.

I love you so much husband. :)






-adios-



Wednesday, 29 March 2017

Zaheen at school

Assalamualaikum.

Hihi. Pejam celik pejam celik it's almost one year since hantar Zaheen ke taska. So far, dia sangat okay kat taska tu. Dan dia ada this one favourite teacher yang memang dia selesa and sayang. Nowadays dah tak nangis kalau nak pi school. Ada satu ketika masa cuti lama, dia meragam tak nak pi school punya pasal. Tapi now masuk pintu taska pun dah tak sabar. Mommy pun dia pandang sebelah mata je. Siap bubbye lagi. Sobs.

Anyway, these are photos Zaheen at school. Macam-macam aktiviti dia buat. Tu yang suka sangat gi school tu. Now dah pandai one two three, A B C and Alif Ba Ta. Very clever boy. 

Layan~~~

Ni masa main apa ntah...







Ni pulak masa main susun numbers...



Ni belajar sebut huruf vokal...




Ni belajar mengaji iqra Alif Ba Ta...




Ni hari ni punya aktiviti. Cari jeli dalam tepung... Last-last die yang bertepung banyak skali. Haha...




































Hihi. Thank you Taska Cilik Pintar. Tak sia-sia bayar bulan-bulan kalau aktiviti penuh macam ni and kebajikan terjaga. Pernah juga Zaheen balik kena gigit dengan kawan, tapi biasa la. Duduk taska mana-mana pun macam tu. Natural perangai budak. Haha. As long as immunisasi inject penuh, insyaAllah don't have to worry about Hep B ke apa kalau kena gigit pun. Hehe.

Now will start planning nak celebrate birthday dia kat taska July ni. Haha. Excited lebih. Ye la masa tu perut dah buyung malas nak pikir. Baik pikir sekarang je. Nanti boleh pikir adik Zaheen plak. Hihi.


Till then, bubbye!


-adios-

Monday, 13 February 2017

Fabulous Feb!

Assalamualaikum.

Yek. I'm in KK right now. Just having my second MOGTT done or in other word "minum air gula", which is the most horrible phase some of you need to get through during pregnancy. And now I'm feeling all nausea and high and urghh i hate this feeling. Anyway, my third pregnancy for my second soon to born child so far is doing good. Nausea is normal nowadays and luckily I did'nt have to go through the vomitting phase yet, for now (my vomitting phase started late in my previous pregnancy).

Zaheen on the other side has been a very good child. I think he is ready to be a big brother. Haha. Whenever he see any babies in the house he will just kiss and kiss and kiss and smiling and heeeeeeeeee and kiss again. The worst he would do to those babies is pulling their socks and run away. It's naughty, but it's cute too. My feeling towards Zaheen is really really sentimental nowadays. Perhaps because he's becoming bigger and smarter and handsomer and all better. Every night he will just cuddle me and make sure his body feel mine until he asleep. He's also completely weaning off breastfeeding by now. Well not really complete as some of the day when he's not feeling well, I kept breastfeeding him anyway.

My husband anyway lately is being all caring and romantic (well, not really but adalah up sket kan haha), which is good. And all the transition he is going through now is also good and I hope we will both be a better person from day to day insyaAllah. Just have faith that everything will be going just fine, just like what I pray for insyaAllah.

So... Why is it again a fabulous Feb? Well.... I don't know. Just be grateful for whatever things that happened, alhamdulillah. And also excited to plan for our next anniversary getaway, but blame the pregnancy hormone, I just feel LAZY to move around nowadays. I just want to stay in bed and sleep sleep sleep.

That's all the carutan(s) for today. Wish me luck for another 1 hour and 45 minutes to my next blood taking. I'm feeling dizzy already. Might sleep here as well. Bye!



-adios-

Tuesday, 3 January 2017

2017

Assalamualaikum,

Tetibe je dah 2017. How time flies... Hwahwa... Anyway, welcome 2017!!! And thanks 2016 for the lessons, experiences, etc etc. 

Sama macam tahun-tahun sebelum ni, I never had any resolution. But i think this year I might come with few resolutions. Hwa hwa.

1. To be a better wife, mommy, daughter and muslim of course.
2. To get a real steady job.
3. To always be beside my little family.
4. To teach and guide my family especially my husband to become a better person too.
5. To have a real planning to afford to own a house, my very first house.
6. To love my child and myself more than anyone else.
7. To shoot whoever come in between to ruin my beautiful little family.
(I wish shooting was legal anyway. Wuaaa...)

Anyway, update about my little Zaheen. He grew up of course. Dah big boy. Easily understand arahan simple. Knows ABC, tapi setakat C je lah haha. Senang nak minta tolong apa-apa sebab dia rajin dan suka kalau suruh buat apa-apa. Still breastfeeding, and eats a lot too. Perut buncit gila. Very active. Gigi dah 10, includes 2 geraham baru tumbuh. Rambut masih macam baby-baby. Sangat suka layan nursery rhymes lately ni. Can recognize orang very well. And last but not least, sangat-sangat-sangat manja dengan Mommy. Tido memang kena peluk je, kalau tak pun dia akan menepek dan make sure anggota badan dia rasa badan Mommy. Nak tengok tv atau buat apa-apa mesti tarik tangan Mommy ajak join skali, kecuali kalau dia tengah main benda yang dia tau Mommy marah. Haha...

Anyway anyhow, I wish everyone a happy new year 2017, and best of luck for every single thing you're doing throughout the year. 

Till then, toodles!


-adios-



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