Monday, 7 May 2018

Election : Let's vote!


2 days left before we start to vote. So, basically, I've done reading manifestos, candidate's profiles and do some pros & cons list for all the parties. But honestly, I still haven't decided on what to choose. Haha.

I grew up in an academician + politician family. My mother was a chemistry lecturer back then. While my father in the other hand, was a physics lecturer & a dean once upon a time, before he changed his career to a politician. He won the seat for N18 Terengganu for 2 terms (1995 & 2004) and lost once (1999). For the year 2008, 2013 & 2018, he wasn't selected as a candidate for his party, which, I prefer not to tell the reason here. Let's keep that story in our circle only, BUT, I just wanna say, POLITIC IS FOREVER DIRTY, NO MATTER WHAT PARTY YOU STAND UP FOR. Especially in BN, the scenario lately is very dissappointing. Lots of persons who are worth enough to be candidates, end up stood down by their own party. The good candidates in BN nowadays -- you can even count using your fingers! Haha.

Election this time however, I am really sure, makes everyone confuse on which party to choose. BN is OK, but most of us don't like Najib, and that includes me. PH err. I'll never like DAP, AMANAH & PKR, even though I think Pribumi Bersatu is OK. While PAS in the other hand, puts lots of very good candidates with good academic background. But unfortunately, they don't have enough seat to take over the parliament even if they won all. Ouh and one more thing, you should see the list of BN candidates for Terengganu, and compare the list with PAS candidates. Such a shame for BN, seriously. While PH candidates in the other hand, come in just like bidan terjun if they found out neither BN & PAS have the guts to win in that DUN or Parliment.

Anyway, I am not an expert about politic, and will never be, cause I actually hate politic. Haha. But I hope, we all can choose wisely, and most importantly, GO OUT AND VOTE, FOR THE SAKE OF OUR COUTRY. As for me, I'll go back to Terengganu tomorrow with my sister (again... Cause Pokcik is off to Seattle this time. Hurm. Ouh, and he voted already last Saturday). I'm excited to go voting even though this is my second time. Haha.

OK. Enough with merepekness. Kids are asleep. And I think I should too now. 

Till then, toodles!


Wednesday, 11 April 2018

4th Anniversary


22 March 2018 marks our 4th wedding anniversary.

So much things to be grateful for, Alhamdulillah.

May our love blooms wider and forever insyaAllah.

I love you, my husband. Forever love you.

And our sons of course.

For many years to come, insyaAllah.


P/s : Late update because Pokcik is busy with his course, while I'm here busy taking care of our kids. But I'm grateful enough my sister is here to help me, Alhamdulillah.


Wednesday, 28 February 2018

Nothing Much To Say


Feels like been ages tak update this blog. I wanted to write so many things, but end up tulis dalam notepad je. Haha.

So many things to write here. But currently I am not really able to do so. Pokcik went to Hawaii earlier this month, and now off to kursus for few months. So it's just me and the kids here. Lucky my sister willing to stay with us, so takde la sunyi sangat. Alhamdulillah. 

Anyway, if you guys miss me,feel free to folow my food IG. Haha. Gigih tak ada food IG. Dah lama buat but I don't really tell anybody about that. Basically, that IG is just for me to keep my cooking journey. I put most of the recipes I cook there, of course the easy one, yet delicious. Feel free to follow @flavoryheaven .
Makcik-makcik sangat update masak-masak. Haha.

Friday, 12 January 2018

Life Must Go On


So finally I decided to stop sending Zaheen to that school. He's been having nightmares for few nights and started to have a sudden wake up due this his anxiety and panic feeling until we need to cool him down. So I asked for the deposit back since he only go to school for 3 days, and as expected, we got half of the deposit only. Alhamdulillah, but still... We lost RM 350 ++. I take it as sedekah jer la. Hu hu hu. Anyway, actually when I asked the manager there, she suggested to change my plan for Zaheen, which is playschool in the morning, and continue to daycare in the afternoon. But then, she wrote "Tapi tu lah, Zaheen masa tidur je menangis", which makes me feel that she don't really want Zaheen there since Zaheen mengganggu tidur budak-budak lain. Whatever it is, that school made Zaheen phobia even to hear the word "school" and "teacher". Sigh. I need some time to make him feel the excitement of going to school again. Hurm.

Nadzmin on the other hand turns 6 months yesterday. Got his vaccine at KK yesterday, and I too got to do Pap Smear as well. The result will come out in the next 3 months. Hopefully all is well, insyaAllah. Nadzmin started mengesot everywhere now. He loves to eat his hands, minyak telon, charging cable, and the most thing he love is... MY PHONE. And he broke my phone few times already until my husband needs to open up all the screws and fix it. Haha.

Hurm. I have nothing more to update. Just killing my time accompanying my husband doing his works. He's been busy lately since his new boss came in. Back at home at 6pm ++ and after Isya' mengadap laptop atas meja until late night. That explains why Zaheen and Nadzmin especially, become clingy all the time with mommy. Hu hu hu.

That's all for now. Till then, toodles!


Friday, 5 January 2018

2018 and New School


So Zaheen started to go to his new school on 2nd Jan, means tomorrow will be his 4th day in school. However, he seems like he didn't really enjoy his new school. The first day he went back from school, he's smiling and chilling like usual. When i asked him how was school, he said teacher gave him nametag, he ate well, and played too. So I assumed he likes his new school. 

The second day, he went back also smiling. But my husband said he's been saying he wants to stay at home again and again and again and keep repeating the same thing all the way back from school. He played and watched tv as usual after Isya' before he suddenly cried and said "tanak gi schoooollll", after I showed him the pictures which his teacher sent to me. He cried for about fifteen minutes before fell asleep few minutes after I managed to cool him down.

Today, he went back less smiling. As usual I gave him a big hug when I saw him and asked how was school. This time, he cried loudly and keep repeating "Aheen tanak gi school". And the cry remains for almost an hour. Lucky we did plan and decided to go out for dinner tonight to make him forget about the school for a while. He even cried louder when he saw me wearing my proper blouse to go out, because he thinks I'm going to send him to school again. I had a hard time telling him that we are not going to school at night.

So after the dinner, he fell asleep on our way back home. One thing that makes me worry is, he started having nightmare about school. He woke up two times already tonight and cried saying he doesn't want to go to school. 

Hurm. We asked the teacher before if he's okay at school and the teacher said he's okay and ate well. The teacher said sometimes he cried and mention mommy and daddy. He even woke up from his nap this evening and cried loudly searching for mommy and daddy, and his friends then were all awake due to his loud crying voice - which I think it annoyed the teachers and make us as parents feel guilty.

So the question now is, is he ready for school? I think he feel lost because this is a new school for him and I do feel his teachers are a lil bit strict on all the students there. It's weird to see the pictures of a bunch of kids sit down properly, looking at camera, not smiling at all like something is pressuring them to stay still. His past school regularly uploading pictures on their Facebook page, and it's normal to see kids in his age wandering and playing around while taking the picture. But this time, I don't know because it's hard tell. Well of course every school is different. Maybe he's not acting like this in his past school because he was just 8 months old when the first time I sent him, and his cousin Sakinah was there too so maybe he feels less scared.  

Anyway, my husband said the teacher today said this to him once, "kalau Zaheen kutis bibir lagi nanti teacher selotape tangan"- this is when Zaheen kutis his dry lips due to lack of drinking water. It is a normal thing to say, but for Zaheen it is not. He is super duper afraid of the selotape. It's my fault because I used to scare him with the selotape whenever he say and do something bad, even I never really use selotape to do anything to him. But he reallllllly scared of the selotape even just to see it, I don't know why. So I guess, when the teacher - who now he feels like a stranger, scared him with a selotape, I think that is the biggest point why he did act like that today. He feel very scared. Just imagine, he just knew these strangers, had no friend and no one he knows around him and of course he is really, really scared. I know how scared he is that now I feel all teary knowing how helpless he feels at that time. Poor my little boy.

If you ask me what I feel. Deep in my heart, I do feel something is wrong somewhere. But i don't know is it just my feeling or what. I don't know if Zaheen is not ready for school yet, or is he just having a hard time to adapt to his new school and making friend (which I think not really because Zaheen loves making new friend), or the school is actually not suitable for Zaheen, or perhaps Zaheen is just being spoiled because he hasn't go to school for a while now. And actually my left eye has been blinking since Tuesday and I don't even know why. Wallahualam.

Whatever it is, for now I can only pray that Zaheen will have a good time at school and his teachers are patient enough to handle him. I pray that Allah will ease his heart and give strength to my lil boy to go through this adaptation process. I know Zaheen is a one strong and brave boy. May Allah ease us all. Amin.

I miss the smile and laugh at Zaheen's face. :( 

P/s : I need a back up plan. Help!!!


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